FAQs
The questions you want answers to…
At Millpond we recognise that making the decision to get help with your child’s sleep issue is not always an easy one. So to help you with this decision we have answered some of your most frequently asked questions.
Q. I’ve tried everything - why will Millpond’s sleep techniques work?
- Most people have tried everything, read everything and spoken to everyone they know by the time they come to us at Millpond.
- All our sleep consultants are parents, trained health professionals and have had many years experience of dealing with children’s sleep problems both with Millpond and in the NHS.
- Our sleep therapists are able to view your families sleep issues not only from a health viewpoint, but with an objective health professionals eye, which enables them to dissect not only any possible sleep problems but any other issues such as diet or behaviour that may be influencing your child’s sleep problems. They may even suggest you seek initial help with a specific medical condidtions that could be impacting your child’s sleep such as eczema before you consider a sleep programme. Only then will they plan an appropriate programme for you.
- Our clients have told us that what they found the most helpful about the sleep programme was having someone with empathy, experience and knowledge there to support them through their programme.
Q. Do you need to see my child?
As your personal sleep coach we need to speak to parents so we can support and guide you, almost remotely, until you have reached your goals for your child’s sleep.
For school aged children we often suggest having a call that includes your child once you’ve started your child’s sleep progarmme. We’ve found children love to talk about their sleep and hear first hand from their very own sleep consultant.
Q. Do you do home visits?
Having done virtual consultations since 2000 our families and sleep consultants have found virtual consultations to be:
- More convenient for parents to have their consultation in the comfort of their own home, at a time to suit them.
- Much easier for managing childcare.
“I hesitated about only having a phone interview but soon realised it didn’t affect the advice given and made no difference what so ever ….. we were REALLY happy with our experience and wouldn’t hesitate to recommend or use again”
Kate Thompson
“The telephone support was fantastic (better than face-to-face would have been)”
Catherine St John-Smith
Q. Do you come out at night?
- For your convenience some of our sleep consultants do consultations in the evening.
- Our approach is to give you the skills and empower you to manage the sleep plan yourselves. This helps to build your confidence in handling your child’s behaviour, which as a bonus, will impact positively on their daytime behaviour as well.
- We feel it is important for your child to see you taking control of the situation.
- Should you encounter sleep problems in the future, due to unusual circumstances such as an illnesses or a holiday, the knowledge and skills you will have acquired during your time working with us, will enable you to quickly get back on track.
Who better to teach your child such an important skill for life than their parents!
Q. Will I have to do controlled crying?
At Millpond we aim to match your parenting styles with our sleep strategies.
We only ever use gentle child-focused sleep techniques and would NEVER ask you to leave your child to cry-it-out.
Q. What happens if I need more support /consultation time?
As the majority of sleep problems are resolved within our packages, this is not usual, but we do offer additional top-up consultations if needed.
Q. What is a Sleep Consultant?
A sleep consultant, or sleep coach, is someone who specialises in baby and children’s sleep.
Sleep issues can seem complex and very hard to unravel; even knowing where’s best to start can be seemingly impossible. By helping you understand why your child has a particular sleep issue, and guiding you step-by-step through your child’s unique sleep plan, your sleep coach should help you to resolve that issue and to improve sleep for your whole family.
Our Team of Sleep Consultants
While there is no official sleep consultant qualification, our team of compassionate fully qualified health professionals have worked for years in the NHS. They are all highly experienced sleep consultants each having worked at Millpond for many years. They are also parents who know first-hand what sleep deprivation feels like.
As a team we know that sleep issues can be complex which is why our sleep consultants’ approach is holistic and empathetic, using all the professional skills and experience we’ve amassed over the years.
Our Approach
We only use gentle and loving sleep strategies, that are fully based in science and are unique to your family and child. Just as you know your child has their own unique character and skills their sleep patterns and solutions will be just as unique to them.
We assess your child’s sleep using our detailed sleep questionnaire and will also ask you to fill in a sleep diary for your child so we can clearly see their sleep patterns both in the day and at night. Your baby or child’s sleep plan is then created with you, taking a holistic and tailored approach.
Our goal as sleep consultants we will then support and guide you throughout this process to enable you to get the sleep you all need to feel more rested, less stressed and have the energy to enjoy your family life. We aim to empower you with the skills to quickly guide your child’s sleep back on track at any point in the future should you need to.
So, if you are struggling with your child’s sleep, please don’t hesitate to get in touch. We’re here to listen with empathy and to help you and your family have the sleep you need and deserve.
See what parents' say about us
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When feeling overwhelmed by tiredness and in need of real sleep help, Millpond’s ‘Teach Your Child to Sleep’ is a much welcomed, well researched resource. This is an easy read with a practical nurturing approach that walks you and your child through to a good night sleep.
Rozanne Hay, UK Representative and Director for Continuing Education IACSC International Association Of Child Sleep consultants -
The Millpond approach is non-prescriptive and [their] book offers lots of choices for parents to match their own goals and parenting styles. I would heartily recommend it for anyone already experiencing problems with sleep or to set up good sleep habits proactively.
Melissa Hood, founder of The Parent Practice -
This baby and child sleep guide is the perfect combination of accessible science, Mandy’s years of experience and a mother’s warmth. I love the way things fall into place with Mandy’s clear and thorough explanations!
Diana Hill, co founder of Essential Parent -
Millpond’s brilliant blend of commonsense, encouragement and understanding – plus a highly logical strategy that is easy to implement – changed hell into heaven literally overnight. My entire family is thus indebted to Mandy and her team.
Freya North, Author -
I am a GP and would recommend Millpond to any sleep deprived parents; you cannot put a price on sleep. Thank you so much. I only wish I hadn’t waited 19 months.
Vanessa, GP -
We are so happy that we put our trust in you to help us with what has been a huge problem for our family for almost 2 years. We are finding time to relax and time for each other and I did not realise how much we missed this time.
Ben -
As a family, we were sleep deprived. The tailored plan for our son made it personal. I am really pleased with what we’ve achieved during the programme and I am thankful to Juliet and Millpond.
Evrim. -
We were at rock bottom. Our son has a neurological condition, so I was nervous and and wanted a sleep clinic who had experience of this and would adapt to the needs of our son. Our lives literally changed overnight!
Shurron -
Within weeks our son was waking only once a night. The investment we made into Millpond was one of the best we’ve ever made. It gave my son a solid night sleep and consistency. It gave me and my husband our sanity back.
Shurron -
I am delighted. I was aiming to go from 6+ wakes at night and feeding to sleep 100% of the time to 1-2 wake ups and some ability to self-settle. After doing the plan for less than 6 weeks my daughter started sleeping through the night.
Katie -
My daughter is now having quite a bit more than the average sleep for her age and it’s lovely to see her waking up naturally. I’m also waking up naturally and feeling much more refreshed for having a regular sleep routine myself!
Louise -
We are so happy we could jump for joy, we wish we had spoken to you ages ago. Using Millpond has built our confidence and made us feel on top of it at last. You really gave us some life back!
Sarah -
I live in Switzerland so it is really quite remarkable that Millpond was able to help me over the phone and by email. When you have slept you can deal with anything!!
Melanie -
We still can’t believe that such small changes have made such a difference to us and Alice. She has even slept through while on holiday in a travel cot.
Louise -
We are just so sorry we did not get in touch sooner as we went through 18 months of no sleep.
Ann Marie -
Thank you, thank you, thank you!! We never thought life could be improved so greatly. You showed us the light. Luka is much happier and loving his sleep now.!
Diane -
Alex is sleeping beautifully again and is now quite happy to lay in his cot singing until 7.30/745 am ( Godsend!) and sleeps very happily through the night again. Thank you so much!
Sandy -
Very happy to say that Joshua, who you helped us with, is now sleeping a regular 11 hours a night uninterrupted. In fact, getting him up some mornings is a real challenge!
John -
Mandy has been an absolute saviour at a time which was starting to feel quite bleak in terms of our little one’s sleep. The personalised advice and guidance has been invaluable.
Mary -
“My husband and I reached out to the Millpond Sleep Clinic when our son was 10 months old. We had spent months in vain trying a variety of sleep training tips that we had picked up online, in a desperate attempt to get our son to sleep for more than 2 hour stretches! Nothing seemed to work. I remember crying whilst breastfeeding for the 5th time one evening, desperately begging my little one to sleep. We felt like we had been failing for a long time, as my circle of mum friends had all got their babies sleeping through so much earlier. I needed to get more sleep, with the return to work looming ever closer.
When we called Millpond, we were quickly introduced to Juliet who immediately took the pressure off us by providing a detailed “plan of action” based on what she had heard about our son’s sleep routine. After just a few nights, we already started to see big sleep improvements, and we worked confidently towards reducing our son’s night wakings and the duration of his night feeds. After a couple of weeks we had gone from 4-5 night wakings to just 1… and a few weeks later, our son started to sleep through! The biggest relief ever.
Throughout the whole process Juliet had been knowledgeable, kind, reassuring and made herself available to answer our questions over email between our sessions. Her experience as a mother herself, and highly trained sleep professional shone through. We can’t thank you enough for helping us through a rough time – and seeing us through to better days (and importantly, nights!!)
Cheryl
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